A website for Christian singles discussing courtship, dating, relationships and such. Recent articles include: God's Not the Defendant, No Little People, Through the Noise, God Told Me to Marry You, Cutting, It's My Fault, Already Not Yet, Eat Bitter, Open Doors for Me, The Seduction of Pornography, Physical Intimacy and the Single Man, Solomon's Line on Premarital Sex, Getting Real about Sex , Prep for the Wedding Night, The Best Sex, Guys and Sex, Girls and Sex, Sex at the Edge of Night, How Far is Too Far?, Nurturing Protection, Jesse Jackson's True Colors, Big Talker, Gas and God, The Shack, A Review, Not a Virgin, Looking for Love Like a Peasant, The Gift of Freedom, Settling, Above the Flood, Our One-Track Mind, and Biblical Dating.





University of Destruction
by David Wheaton

What should be a time of "building up" one's life often crumbles as college students fail to make the grade with their faith. Author David Wheaton relates his own experiences at Stanford as he describes three Pillars of Peril students face in college — sex, drugs & alcohol, and humanism — and shares strategies for overcoming these common snares through personal and spiritual safeguards.

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August 7, 2008

God's Not the Defendant
by Gary Thomas
Why would anyone want to re-depict the Godhead, as The Shack seems to have done?




No Little People

If the Lord can be glorified through a humble stick of wood, surely He can be glorified through a humble you.
 

Through the Noise

In this vortex of stimuli, truth and deception, art may do what few other things can: It may, for a moment, still the scene around us.
 

God Told Me to Marry You

"A guy whom I previously decided not to date told me recently that he feels I am the one God wants him to marry."
 

Cutting

Of all the self-destructive behaviors I had, cutting was always the hardest to explain. How do I reconcile having inflicted destruction upon my body even while serving the Lord?
 

It's My Fault


When we call sin what it really is, we can embrace truth, and life can spring again.
Already Not Yet


There are moments when I feel like two different people.

Eat Bitter


When situations seem unfair or even disastrous, we can only swallow the injustice and bitterness if we focus on the unflinching promise that our times are in His hands.
Open Doors for Me


For whatever reason, he doesn't open the car door for her. And that's raising some questions.

The Seduction of Pornography


When it comes to porn, every man must decide who he will be, whom he will serve and how he will love.
Physical Intimacy and the Single Man


What may be considered innocent — holding hands, putting an arm around her in the pew, some "light" kissing, long talks over Starbucks coffee — all send her the message that reads, "You're mine."

Solomon's Line on Premarital Sex


The Bible doesn't specifically say premarital sex is wrong, does it?
Getting Real about Sex


A book about chastity is pointing the way in our sex-saturated culture.

Prep for the Wedding Night


How can an engaged couple prepare for their wedding night in a God-honoring way?
The Best Sex


So you've saved yourself for marriage, only to find your fiancee isn't a virgin. Is her "experience" an asset or asking for trouble?

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