Personal Growth

Armed with self-help books and a to-do list, I feel convinced I can make myself better. But things never work out quite like I expect, and I have yet to meet my own goals and expectations. But as small tomato seedlings show us, growth takes time.

We have entered into a new age of the internet: The age of the guru. More and more people are aiming to become “experts” whose opinions and experiences simply need to be shared and heard. I’ve been tempted to hop on this bandwagon myself. But maybe those seeking to become gurus don’t have the best motives at heart.

Beware the ides of March as you keep your New Year’s resolutions.You might be tempted to let a day or two slip now and again. You call it a vacation day or a cheat day. Don’t let these names fool you. They’re a sign you’re giving up.

I see friends posting about how they landed their dream job upon graduation and about their exotic traveling experiences. For some of these people, I know the truth. I know their lives aren’t as full of excitement and joy as they proclaim them to be on Facebook and Instagram. But you know what? Neither is mine.

Five months ago, I decided to get serious about eating healthier and exercising. I’ve been able to stick with it because of a change in mindset and a focus on developing healthy habits, rather than just following specific diets. Here are four helpful things I’ve learned along the way.

What if knowing ourselves isn’t simply a social exercise but also a spiritual one? I can be acceptable to God while also being an introvert.

When we see these creative moments in “The Greatest Showman,” it’s easy to look at our lives with our seemingly mundane skills and find ourselves lacking.

Because I’m a perfectionist, I punish myself when I fail. It would be easier to stubbornly move forward without learning or addressing my shortcomings.